Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Caught not Taught

Disclaimer: This is a really "nerdy" educator post that is probably interesting only to me, but I'm going to write about it anyway because...well, because I want to! If Chuck can write about Zombies, then I guess I can write about literacy development. I know...zombies are more interesting. It's okay...you can click over to the Zombie posts instead. I won't mind.


I don't really know when this happened but I realized within the past week or so that Mihret has picked up on the concept of "word." A week or so ago, Mihret was "reading" a story to me. She remembered the story for the first few pages and then turned to me and said, "I don't know the words on this page. Will you read it to me?" That was the first time I remembered her using the word, "word" in relation to print on a page. A day or two later she again asked me if I would "read the words" to her.

I realize that might not seem like an amazing accomplishment, but the concept of "word" is a foundational literacy concept. A person has to understand that language is made up of words and that words are made up of letters in order to learn to read in an alphabetic system like English. The concept of "word" is actually pretty abstract if you don't see a language in written form. When we talk, lots of our words flow together, so when you are listening to an unknown language, it is often hard to tell when one word stops and the other begins. When children are learning a language, they usually start out by learning words that are associated with people or concrete objects. As they develop language, they pick up on more abstract concepts.

I never took early childhood education classes so I don't know exactly when children develop "concepts of print." All I know is that all of the older kids I've worked with--even those with significant reading problems--already had a basic understanding of the way printed language worked by the time I met them. At some point along the way, kids figure out which direction to hold a book, that English print goes left to right and top to bottom, that the things people say can be split up into words, and that words are made up of letters. I would guess that, like Mihret, most children pick up those concepts through exposure to books - not because anyone specifically taught them those concepts. Anyway, since I've always worked with older children, Mihret is the first child I've been able to watch develop "concepts of print" and I'm finding it fascinating.

About six months ago when Mihret discovered that she could get out of bed by herself, we would often find her in her room with the light on "reading" a book that was upside down. She often "reads" books now - to herself, to her dolls or stuffed animals, and recently to us - but she always holds the book the right way now. When did that change?

A few nights ago when Mihret had that high fever, we were looking at her Bible story book. She was looking at a page that had pictures of people in the Bible with their names under their pictures. She pointed to the picture of Mary and said, "What is the M for, Mama?" I said, "Mary." " What is the P for?" "Peter." "What is the other M for?" "Moses" etc. until she went through all of the names. Mihret has been interested in letters and the sounds they make for a while, but it was another example of her understanding "concepts of print."

When did she figure out that the black letters on the page were the words that we read? Maybe she's known it for a long time and just figured out how to describe it, or maybe the concept just came together for her. Either way, the educator in me gets really excited when I see it.

Monday, November 23, 2009

Celebrate!!!




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Sunday, November 22, 2009

Autumn in Seattle

Mihret and I recently took a short trip to Seattle. I helped out with some training that World Vision was doing and Mihret spent time with Grandma and Grandpa. (Thanks, Grandma and Grandpa! Mihret had a GREAT time with you two!)



We also got to see some dear friends in the evenings.

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It was a whirlwind week that went by too fast. Thanks to all of our dear friends and to my parents for making Mihret's first trip to Seattle so special!

P.S. If you click on the collages, you can see a bigger version of them in your browser.


Saturday, November 21, 2009

A Sweet Little Story

Last night Mihret woke up around 10:45 pm with a high fever - 103.6 degrees. She had been sick all week with a cold and had a low fever when she went to bed, so we had given her some Children's Tylenol around 7:30 pm. After a call to my mom (my "on-call nurse"), we were sitting on the couch trying to cool Mihret's body with a tepid washcloth (she wasn't having it), and waiting until we could give her some more Tylenol at 11:30 pm. She asked for a story, so Chuck read her the story about Jesus healing Jairus' daughter. After the story was over, we had the following conversation:

One of Us: "Who can help you get well?"
Mihret: "The doctor"
Us: "Who made the little girl well?"
Mihret: "Jesus!"
Us: "Who made the frail lady well?"
Mihret: "Jesus!"
Us: "So, who can make you well?"
Mihret: "The doctor"

Not exactly the answer we were looking for, but an understandable response. So we said, "Yes, doctors help us to get well, but Jesus is the One who heals us. Jesus helps doctors know how to help us get better." (Chuck added, "and get through med school")

We prayed together. We prayed that God would heal Mihret's body and help her fever to go away so that she would be able to sleep. We also prayed that God would show Mihret that He is the one who heals her. Right away I felt her body start to cool, but when I kissed her forehead, I could tell that she still had a high fever.

Chuck gave her some Tylenol and she fell asleep quickly. When he woke her up at 3:30 am to give her another dose of Tylenol, her fever was gone. This morning when I got up with her and realized that she didn't have a fever and was feeling much better, I said, "Mihret, Jesus is healing you! Jesus made your fever go away!" and she said, "Yes!"

I know it is a little thing, but it is such a sweet story to me because it reminds me of how much God loves his children - of how much God wants His children to know Him. Someone told me once that the miracle is often in the timing. In this case, God chose to heal Mihret's body quickly and she got to see an example in her own life of God as her Healer. God is good. Thank You, Lord!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Another Step in the Process

We found out today that our Ethiopian court date for Boo #2 is December 7. That's less than 3 weeks away!

With Ethiopian adoptions, the adoptive parents are represented in court by an attorney and don't travel until the embassy date. Sometimes court cases pass on the first attempt; other times, it takes multiple court dates to get all of the paperwork in place and the proper people there to ensure that the child is truly an orphan in need of adoption. We had a couple of unsuccessful court dates before Mihret's case passed a few years back, but before we knew it, she was in our arms! So we will pray and hope for a successful court date on December 7th or shortly thereafter. If all goes well, we could be traveling to Ethiopia in January or February! God made the timing of Mihret's adoption absolutely perfect and we trust that He will do the same this time. (Easier said than done for those of us who tend towards impatience...)

In any case, we are excited to be one step closer to growing our family!

Friday, November 13, 2009

Two Extraordinary Years

On November 13, 2007, an amazing little girl entered our lives...

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...and changed our family forever.

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October, 2009 (see all those gray hairs???)

Happy Family Anniversary, Mihret! We love you!!